3yr old mindee needed toilet, he's fairly capable, so i come up to toilet with him and sit in here while he does his business(just a wee)...after 2-3 minutes i ask if hes ok as taking a while, he says yes...another 23 minutes go by and i go into bathroom , he is facing away from me and is quite enthusiastically, well i cant actually bring myself to say it about a child so small..you get the idea..i asked him what he was doing and why hadnt he wiped his tail and washed his hands(he is very capable of doing this as they also do in nursey) but he just said he was looking at monkey on the wipes??..oh dear me..do i say anything, is it normalat this age?(i dont have boys of my own), do i mention to mum??