Is this a thing?
Me and DH have been financially unaffected by covid, and our CM has been amazing. Planning on getting a gift from DS for her, but would like to give her £100 for Christmas. Is this doable though? Is it weird? Is she able to accept it if paid separately to invoice payments? I don't want to make things complex business wise, but also don't want to discuss it with her first as I think then it's quite uncomfortable.
Any ideas? Do any childminders on here have any thoughts?