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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

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If your DH/DW slept with the nanny...

13 replies

eleusis · 29/06/2007 13:33

Would you forgive him/her?

Just wondering based on a few stories on the other thread. Couple of nannies have said they slept with their bosses and that those parents are still together. And I just wonder how many people would really forgive their other half. I certainly wouldn't.

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cylonbabe · 29/06/2007 13:34

nope,

Hulababy · 29/06/2007 13:35

No.

Don't think I could forgive DH for sleeping with anyone, let alone someone working so closely with us.

pollyanna · 29/06/2007 13:35

well I probably wouldn't forgive him if he slept with anyone really.

I did have quite an attractive au pair and lots of mums asked me how I dared have her in the house (as if dh wouldn't be able to resist her or something). it didn't really cross my mind tbh.

TootyFrooty · 29/06/2007 13:36

No. Ultimate breach of trust imho.

NannyL · 29/06/2007 13:36

why is sleeping with a nanny / au pair difefrent from sleeping with anyone else?

so youd forgive them for sleeping with the nanny.... but not for sleeping with their boss ? the milkman ? the post woman? random dtranger who they just met?

Have never slept with any of my bosses btw! and never been tepmted too either!

TootyFrooty · 29/06/2007 13:41

Err, you've misread it nanyL. Everyone says they wouldn't forgive.

bookwormmum · 29/06/2007 13:49

I wouldn't forgive them if they were unfaithful to me fullstop.

soak · 29/06/2007 14:05

depends if he would forgive me for cutting his knackers off!!!

Shoshable · 29/06/2007 14:14

are you by any chance involved with Jude Law

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eleusis · 29/06/2007 15:16

Fair point nannyl, but I'm just following on from the other thread. Thought it migh be a nice entertaining thread on a Friday afternoon. Just an attempt to avoid work really. But it hasn't worked.

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Whoooosh · 29/06/2007 15:20

I wouldn't forgive DP sleeping with anyone but the nanny would be the ultimate betrayal because she really is part of the family.

Makes me sick to even think of it,especially as I knpow someone who was a nanny and did sleep with her boss-even on holiday with wife in the next room

littlelapin · 29/06/2007 15:21

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jellyjelly · 30/06/2007 09:49

I threw out my x dp two weeks before our wedding as he was having an affair. Not forgiven him never will for all the hurt he has caused ds and myself. But i am glad it happened as i got a second chance to find someone who will really totally and utterly love me. Been looking a yr now Mr Right so come find me.

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