If your DH/DW slept with the nanny...

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Would you forgive him/her?

Just wondering based on a few stories on the other thread. Couple of nannies have said they slept with their bosses and that those parents are still together. And I just wonder how many people would really forgive their other half. I certainly wouldn't.

nope,

No.

Don't think I could forgive DH for sleeping with anyone, let alone someone working so closely with us.

well I probably wouldn't forgive him if he slept with anyone really.

I did have quite an attractive au pair and lots of mums asked me how I dared have her in the house (as if dh wouldn't be able to resist her or something). it didn't really cross my mind tbh.

No. Ultimate breach of trust imho.

why is sleeping with a nanny / au pair difefrent from sleeping with anyone else?

so youd forgive them for sleeping with the nanny.... but not for sleeping with their boss ? the milkman ? the post woman? random dtranger who they just met?

Have never slept with any of my bosses btw! and never been tepmted too either!

Err, you've misread it nanyL. Everyone says they wouldn't forgive.

I wouldn't forgive them if they were unfaithful to me fullstop.

depends if he would forgive me for cutting his knackers off!!!

are you by any chance involved with Jude Law

Fair point nannyl, but I'm just following on from the other thread. Thought it migh be a nice entertaining thread on a Friday afternoon. Just an attempt to avoid work really. But it hasn't worked.

I wouldn't forgive DP sleeping with anyone but the nanny would be the ultimate betrayal because she really is part of the family.

Makes me sick to even think of it,especially as I knpow someone who was a nanny and did sleep with her boss-even on holiday with wife in the next room

I threw out my x dp two weeks before our wedding as he was having an affair. Not forgiven him never will for all the hurt he has caused ds and myself. But i am glad it happened as i got a second chance to find someone who will really totally and utterly love me. Been looking a yr now Mr Right so come find me.