i will start at the begginning
my son and mindee both go the cubs on a weds night 6.15 - 7.30pm
mindees mum got her car stolen ages ago so i offered to keep mindee feed hin dinner and take him to cubs with ds
i then offered her my car to use as i didnt use it as her journey to work lasted 1 hr on the bus but we still kept the arrangement that i take mindee to cubs (i didnt mind)
anyway last week a letter was sent home to say cubs are having a sports day and would we drop the boys off at local park it weather was nice, i reminded mindees mum weds morning and said i would phone cub leader at 5ish to find out where they should be at the park or in the centre
anyway 5pm phoned cub leader and because of the wind etc they would be meeting in the centre so i got both boys feed in uniforms and took them to centre.
at 7.15 set off from my house to pick ds up saw mindees mum as i was leaving and she has a face on her but never thought more of it
this morning mindee came in and said his mum was really mad at me as i had not phoned her to tell her where they were and his mum had gone to the park
so i got really cross and phone her and said that she knew i was phoning cub leader at 5pm if she wanted to know she should have phoned cub leader or myself and then i also said i wasnt a teather or cub leader and only get the same info as she does and from now on she could pick her son up from mine at 5.10pm and take him to cubs herself which she said was fine.
i am always getting parents phone me up and ask if they are off such a day or what date do they break up for easter i am sick of it now i only get the same information as everybody else its just that i write it down