If you read my post entitled Argggghhh, you will understand the kind of day I had. Anyway Mindee 2 has come back from playgroup. he fell asleep there and didn't have his snack. He had a pear in his bag which I gave him to eat on the way home. he is incredibly grumpy because they woke him up when I went in to get him ( he had almost 3 hours sleep whilst there). He ate half then threw it away and said he wasn't hungry. He then got in and said the usual "I hungry", "I hungry" over and over. Since the others were by now having their snacks I gave him 2 crackers, which he ate. Then he came to me again with the "I hungry, I hungry, I hungry" over and over. I said no because
A) he has had a pear, which he said he didn't want.
B) he has had two crackers
C) His mum has asked me not to give him anything to eat after 4 pm as he won't eat his dinner.
He has been lying on the floor crying for 10 minutes, If i go near him he kicks me. So, am i being mean in not giving him anything else, or should I just give him something and go against his mums wishes?
What would you do?