Wondering if anyone has any advice on what we should be looking at paying for this nanny arrangement and what would be fair on terms?
Basically we are seeking someone to collect our child from infant school, walk him home a relatively short distance, no more than 10 minutes at his speed, spend the 2.5 hours with him doing homework, baking, crafts, drawing, playing, reading, or in the park near our house ( at their discretion!) and then leave when either of us get home around 6. They would be bringing their own young child to our house with them and working three or four days a week. Would it be fair to reduce the hourly rate somewhat to take account of the fact they are bringing their own child too?
By arrangement separately we might ask them to do full days 4 days a week in school holidays and would expect to pay at the correct increased rate for that.
We would be looking to agree that (paid) holidays be taken during the key holiday periods ie Christmas, Easter and summer as we would need the term time support. Do people think that would be fair or should we be agreeing some more flexibility?
We are in the north rather than in London if that has any bearing on rates etc. I guess we would have to pay statutory sick pay, any maternity pay etc although I guess that is unlikely. In terms of household stuff I don't think we would expect anything like that other than approximate tidy up if messy activities were going on, although could we ask her e.g to pop the oven on and stick fish fingers in for our children to have for supper to reduce the cooking time once we got in? Should we offer for her to feed her child here before she goes home or would that not be typical?
Never had a nanny before (obviously) so looking for a steer on what we should and should not raise/ask for and any suggestions on agreeing terms from either nannies or other parents. Am also doing the usual web research but mumsnet opinion usually seems better than random opinions.
Thanks in advance!