I'd value your opinions please

[FreakyFloss]

If you have a spare ten minutes to read my long post here

Have I just been a nightmare parent? TIA

floss i have read the other thread

am going to have a think and ill post on the other thread later

np xx

I don't think you're being a nightmare but I do think you and the cm just aren't communicating very well - you're both tired and both trying to reach a state of compromise - not ideal. I would try and grab the cm and have a drink together - discuss as friends and find out what the issues are - say that you're aiming for honesty and that if either of you decide that it's unworkable after you've been straight (constructively, not nastily) with each other then fine - at least then you'll have answered one of your questions. Good luck - I'm a SAHM and I take my hat off to you!!

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Hi HMO2 I have noticed little things like text messages asking if she was well after sickness, stuff regarding this matter and when she will be having DS are going unanswered. Also a completely stupid point but DS's nappy not being changed so much. While I appreciate it is hard to have a clingey child it shouldn't be to the detriment of the other children and it seems to be the case here whenever DP and I go to collect DS.

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He still wants to go there yes. He has changed quite bit over the past few weeks anyway, so I wouldn't say quite as enthusiastic but then he is a bit more chilled anyway IYSWIM? The fact that DS does enjoy it is the saddest part of all really.