How do I decided?! I've chatted to a few on Skype and have 3 who from a 30 min chat on Skype I got a good feel for. But how do I choose on the basis of that?? My plan was to do a follow up with my husband and maybe introduce the kids on Skype to get his opinion but Is there anything else I should be doing? It feels hard to go on gut instinct for someone I am inviting into our home! Help!