There is a childminder in my village who has never been particularly warm and engaging with her charges and was a few years ago reported to Ofsted. This morning I saw her struggling on some steps with a buggy and a toddler alongside and my friend asked her if she was ok and neefed a hand. Her answer was no its just f ing bollocking Monday and iv got these f ing bollocking kids. I know we have our off days but it can't be right speaking like that in front of the children can it? What would you do?