Hello I wonder whether anyone can advise of finding live-in help for a complicated situation. It is for my son who is going to be 20 and has disabilities. He attends college in Brighton 3 days per week so we would need someone who would be prepared to live in with us in London but go to Brighton on Monday morning with him (in our regular taxi) and look after him in his non college hours, staying in a small hotel with interconnecting rooms and bringing him back on Wednesday afternoons after college, and helping us at home in London with him. This has worked well with our present lovely home help this year, but she is starting a course and leaving us which is devastating! I have wondered about finding someone in Brighton or hiring someone for the Brighton part of the week and someone else to live in but this seems to add complication and less continuity and not as good for my son. It would be essential to have someone experienced and totally trustworthy and reliable. Any advice on this arrangement, or ideas on how to organise things differently and how much to pay, would be very much appreciated.