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How would you feel about a nanny wearing a bikini?

44 replies

confusedalways · 23/03/2013 23:17

Just that really. Would you find it inappropriate for a nanny to take the children swimming wearing a bikini rather than a swimming costume?

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ravenAK · 24/03/2013 07:01

I suppose I might be mildly concerned that you'd be too busy hoicking your bottoms out of your bottom, as it were, to notice the dc drowning each other.

Not really. Wouldn't be a problem at all.

Callthemidlife · 24/03/2013 09:00

If it were a mothers and babies - type pool session with young babies, then yes, probably inappropriate, mostly because the other mums are still getting their own bodies back in shape and will feel miserable alongside someone in a bikini. That's not your problem of course, but a bit of empathy for the mums on such occasions would be appreciated by them.

If it were any other swimming session, then i cant see the problem.

AngiBolen · 24/03/2013 09:03

No, no inappropriate at all!

I was in a bikini a few weeks after giving birth to DC1.

Cavorting around the holiday villa in front of the children's father might not be the best idea, though. Grin

Unless it really wasn't flattering, and the nanny would look far better in a one-piece....

Victoria2002 · 24/03/2013 09:26

I have had problems in the past caused by wearing a bikini but I still do wear a bikini with my charges. When I worked in Sydney and there was a pool at the house I worked there were comments from my bosses friends and subsequent jealousy from mb etc. I also know nannies who wear a conservative swim cossie at work but bikini in their own time. You g

Victoria2002 · 24/03/2013 09:27

Oops... You gotta watch out for the Velcro on baby wetsuits sticking to your top and lifting it away from your boobs too!

andrea29 · 24/03/2013 10:31

I would only wear a bikini! I hate swimming costumes. My MB wear the sexiest bikinis when she takes the kids swimming and she looks amazing.

As long as you do your job properly, it really doesn't matter what you are wearing. And I think the same about everyday clothes.

LadyHarrietdeSpook · 24/03/2013 11:44

Oh this made me laugh.

A few years' ago (pre-financial crisis) my company organised an offsite on a Spanish island - still warm enough where consideration had to be given as to what manner of swimming costume should be packed and worn in front of colleagues. Thank FUCK I was on maternity leave.

One of the the only women MDs wore a bikini and gathered analysts around her on the beach like flies. Was judged.

LadyHarrietdeSpook · 24/03/2013 11:46

OP my view on this is if the cozzie fits, wear it.

fraktion · 24/03/2013 12:18

I wore one as a nanny, our nanny used to wear one (every day) and I was back in one as soon as I could go swimming after giving birth so I personally wouldn't be bothered but I can see how others might be.

Wishihadabs · 24/03/2013 12:25

I used to wear one regularly but with older dcs. I also wore one with my own dcs.

nannynick · 24/03/2013 14:31

I would look a bit strange wearing a bikini Grin However that does not mean that other nannies would not look fine wearing one.

Ebb · 24/03/2013 15:04

NannyNick there is always the Borat style mankini......... Wink

Blondeshavemorefun · 24/03/2013 17:55

have worn a bikini in garden of charges in paddling pool

but in public pool/beach then cossie

but thats for my modesty Wink

honestly dont think my employers give a toss either way tbh

ceeveebee · 25/03/2013 20:39

Couldn't care less - in fact my nanny has worn one on the few occasions she's taken our twins swimming with me

Unless it was a g string? Grin

ConfusedPixie · 25/03/2013 22:47

I wouldn't but only because I don't like bikinis myself! I wouldn't be phased by another nanny wearing one though :)

Nikky444 · 05/04/2017 07:09

I honestly don't care. I have an in home nanny that helps take care of my 2 daughters. She is 29 and during the summer she is in the backyard or pool with my daughters wearing a bikini. She looks great in it too! Smile

We also have an indoor hot tub. During the winter, she wears a bikini in it with them.

Snap8TheCat · 05/04/2017 07:12

Thanks for joining the conversation 4 years later.

GrapesAreMyJam · 06/04/2017 11:25

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HookandSwan · 08/04/2017 18:17

I'm a nanny and I personally wouldn't but each to their own and all that :)

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