I have worked as a nanny for my current employer for 2 years next week. After much discussion earlier this year it was agreed that I would do some proffessional development training whilst DC attended pre-school for funded sessions. I had been offered a full time place but agreed to do part time as my boss has a complicated work situation and I would prefer to keep earning etc.
I have been accepted on to a course and despite having 11 weeks to write my reference I have just been emailed by the course administrator chasing up my reference. I have asked MB several times over the last 11 weeks to write it, I have written one myself of which she would need to adjust and sign but... yet 2 days before I start my course I/the course have yet to recieve anything.
I work hard in my job often doing PP and a lot of 24 hour cover with little or no notice and have been fine with this but feel that this reference is the sticking point and I can't work for someone who categorically said they understood why I wanted/need to do the training, letting me give up a f/t place to go p/t to not even write me a reference.
WIBU to hand in my resignation on Monday if she hasn't written my reference by my start date to go and do a course full time instead.