I would like my nanny (who I employ for one day only) to attend a first aid course. I am paying for the course (and lunch etc). However, I am uncertain as to whether I should also pay for her time? The course isn't on a day she works for me. My friends are divided when I asked - some say it is a life skill which should be enough/enhances cv and most nannies/childminders etc have to pay for it themselves, others say it is something I am requesting therefore I should pay. I did raise at the interview and she offered to pay for the course herself but I don't want to take advantage. It would make the course VERY expensive so would rather not pay (!) but I want to do the right thing. What would you expect?