Any tips/suggestions for telling relatives to back off and not visit for first 6 weeks??

[GlastonburyGoddess]

sister and BIL basically, very pushy and persistant, very hard work. mentioned yesterday they are coming down july/aug(baby due 12th july) and Im agghghhhhhhhhh

To stay or to pop in?

Tell them you can't make plans as you have no idea when baby arriving or how you will feel. They should make there own plans, and if it works out that they can pop in and meet new baby, that would be lovely.

tell them straight. no room for confusion that way. tell them you would like to be able to relax with your new baby and that you would appreciate if they respect yor wishes.