Hello
Went for my 20 week scan, found out having DD number 3!!! Very happy about that... not so happy that I had to see a consultant (well bless her more an SHO) who told me the chances of me getting my much hoped for home birth are very small.
I had emergency c section with DD1, which was horrid and not something I want to repeat. Put a lot of work into preparing for DD2 and had natural birth in hospital, no problems. Apparently because of c section 6 years ago I'm going to have 'a big fight on my hands' to get my home birth.
Feel a bit let down that I am being made to feel guilty about all the risks, when I've looked into it I don't think they are any greater than a hospital birth.
Of course my DH now has back up from doctors that 'this home birth idea is stupid' and haven't even told my parents what has been said!!!
Is it worth all the effort to put up a fight or should I just go for a hospital birth? Don't know if I'm getting my own back up coz I like a challenge or whether I'm doing it for what I think are the right reasons. Can anyone advise please!!!!