really need a vbac - dd2 is 3.5 and disabled and recovering from a section would be a nightmare with a disabled toddler to cart around.
The midwife has told me that they will not consider a vbac without continual fetal monitoring. With my last two babes every time I tried to move off the bed the trace kept getting lost so they confined me to lying on my back. Which of course resulted in crap labour and more interventions etc.
So now I feel like I have virtually no chance of getting my vbac. They also said that they don't consider anything like forceps if things are going well, they just cut straight to a section if there is any worry at all. All sounds so impossible to me. At the moment I just feel like hiding away and staying at home for as long as possible because I know it will all be crap when I get to hospital.