the recovery can vary so much, can't it?
obviosuly if you are knackered from labour and had more drugs etc you will find it a bit harder going for the first few days pre op
but there can be complications with a planned c.s
there is no set answer
from my personal experience, I knew I had to go for a VBAC, or i would have spent eternity wonderign if i could have done it. I had a totally normal, straighforward labour .
the kind of support you have for your VBAC is vital
also, how your hospital 'manages' VBAC
being given a time limit for example does not help .. i would counter that by saying you will not consetn to a c.s 'just because' a certain amount of time has passed, if laboru is progressing, albeit a little slower.
the 1 cm an hour rule is an average and can;t possibly apply to everyone
some women take 15 hours to get to 4 cm then will deliver 1 hour later
so saying if you don't deliver within x hours we will give you a section is just silly !