Hi there,
Sorry, another bad story from me...
Had three pessaries between Friday lunchtime and Saturday night. Within two hours of first, contractions started but I didn't dilate. I was in agony and didn't sleep for two nights.
On the Sunday, finally I was dilated enough for them to break my waters (by the way, they had to give me G&A just to insert the pessaries - but I also bleed terribly and have awful pains during smears so I think that's just me...). Because of the pain I'd been in, they offered to give me an epidural before they broke my waters, so didn't feel that at all.
Unfortunately the epidural only numbed one side of my body, so I could feel every agonising contraction but couldn't move around to relieve it. I also had gestational diabetes so was on an insulin drip aswell as the Oxytocin drip, so cannulas in both hands!! They gave me G&A while I waited for the anaesthatist to come back and redo the epidural.
In the end, having not slept since the Thursday, I was exhausted and they decided to deliver my LO using the Ventouse cup. So ended up being cut and then, to top it all off, the doctor decided to stitch me up after the epidural had started to wear off, but with no local anaesthetic!!
So all I would say is, make sure you have back up plans for any pain relief you decide on - I never thought the epidural wouldn't work. Will probably never have another child because of my experience, but if we do, we will request an Elective CS due to emotional trauma!!
Bear in mind that if the epidural had worked, the labour itself would have been fine I'm sure... I was just really really unlucky!!
Good luck!!