My first prenancy i had an emergency c-sec at 28 weeks as both boys were breech. DD was VBAC, which i really had to fight for as HCP all thought that i should have a section as i'd had one previously and there was a risk of scar rupture. Even with the VBAC, i still didn't get the kind of birth i really wanted - ended up stuck on the bed as they put a monitor on DD's head after they broke my waters. Ended up with a 3rd degree tear and 30 odd stitches and was in hospital (needlessly, i felt) for four days.
This time i'm considering a home birth - am i mad? Would i be 'allowed'? I just want to be around things familiar to me, to have my DC here and most importantly, not be away from them for any significant ammount of time.