hi im 21wk pg and just cant stop thinking about the birth even though along way away, since midwife told me id be unlikely to have time for an epidural with a second birth.
im really not good with pain and sort of knew id prob have one with ds and i must admit i had a pretty good experience, made it much calmer and think dh found it easier not seeing me in pain and i was chatting and really quite happy during labour and birth. midwife has just made me think what im gonna do if i cant have one this time round for whatever reason.
first labour and birth went like this-
induction at 42wks using pessary tablet at 8.30am
contractions started at 1pm
waters broke at 3cms
laboured ok till 11pm, put on oxitocin(sp) drip really intensified contractions straightaway, having one every 2 mins
12am 5cms had epidural
laboured pain free till 6.30am fully dilated
ds born 1 hour later with no intervention and no tearing!
so i am considered as really low risk and midwife even tried talking me into a home birth but thats not an option for me, but am thinking about maybe trying to cope without one and think maybe water will help anyone had a really good waterbirth experience in same situation as me or similar?
am also thinking away from epidural as it was a pain being numb and not able to move around after for ages afterwards, would also like to be out of hospital as soon as possible this time and know that having an epidural will prob prolong things alot coz of being wired up to so many things ect...
wow sorry to go on so much hope poeple dont get too bored before they get a chance to post lol!