So I am planning a second c section. My first child will be 23 months at the time of the birth. I am so nevous about the recovery but mostly not being able to pick her up Also I would really just love some stories about 2nd c sections ( hopefully mostly positive ) thanks so much. ( plus people who have never had a c setion and think it is "easy" and have lots of advice say things about not going into labor that i may not bond with the baby etc.. ) which just throws me over the edge!!!!!!! any chat would be helpful.