"moving to avoid Heatherwood again!" you are planning dc3 already????? your toddler must be much better behaved than mine!
in your case i would discuss with gp/mw when/if you are pregnant again being screened for group b strep (several of my friend have it, and unfortuntaly one baby was very ill and inscbu for three months but is now 3 and fine)
wph can test you for gbs, however if they dont want to pay or whatever there is a simple way of getting the test done privately, a company will send you test kit, you are swabbed by your mw and post it off, iirc it was £10/£20, i believe the suggest screening at 36 ish weeks
wphs policy is iv antibiotics in labour and poss to baby if quick delivery
i would push for testing in next pregnancy stating to mw what happened this time, as most babies are fine with strep b (one in 3 wommen are carries but not every affected womans child is ill) and it is stated that if a woman who has tested positive and had prior unaffected children (without chikldren) will likely have unaffected subsequent children
obv research hasnt been done to prove a proper conclusion but it appears that the reverse is likely that if one baby is affected subsequent babies are at a slightly raised likelihood of being affected
or if it was childbed fever i know zilch about that!
anyweay glad you and the boys seem to be doing well despite this drama, i am currently weaning ds so he isnt a 'baby' baby anymore, time flies!