Hi, not quite sure why I'm posting, maybe just looking for some reasurrance...
I'm term +16 (or T+11 if I go from conception rather than scan date - overdue anyway) with first baby.
My waters broke early hours this morning - and lots of them - soaked a bath towel, and went through 3 maternity pads v quickly. I've been to hospital to be checked - waters clear, baby moving and good heartbeat etc, everything fine with me. I had some pains from about 6am, which were coming every 10 mins, but they've all but stopped. Waters still coming.
Baby's head is only 1/5th engaged. I've been told to call hospital tomorrow morning to make sure they're not too busy, and then go in for induction. I've been refusing induction up til now - I'm petrified of ending up on synto drip with continuous monitoring, not able to move and needing an epidural - my hospital doesn't do mobile ones either.
Midwife said there was 'a reason' why head wasn't engaged, but didn't really explain. Apparently baby is a good size - approx 8lb estimated from scan last week - but not massive, so I don't think that's stopping him from moving down.
Any thoughts/experiences? I know the risk of infection is increased; of course my main priority is the safety of both of us, but I'm feeling so sad and disappointed about potentially ending up with a highly medicalised birth.
Feel free to give me a kick up the jacksy if I'm being over the top/self indulgent....