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[Alibob1972]

My partners daughter in law recently gave birth and my partner watched the video on his sons phone - I’m really not happy in fact fuming she did agree to let him watch it I think it’s weird on all levels

Why aren't you happy? I think it's definitely unusual....

I just think it’s something really personal and intimate

You’re fuming?? That’s unreasonable.

I’d have hated to be filmed, and I really don’t want to watch anyone else birth video. But I think you’re being weird to be angry about it

Assuming that his daughter in law was happy for the video to be shared to family, it’s not really your business what is to personal and intimate for someone else to share of themself. You don’t have to watch it. One Born Every Minute ran for years and years.

This.

Personally I wouldn’t have even wanted to watch a video of myself giving birth, nevermind someone else, but it’s not up to you.

Assume its his grandchild being born?

Don't know why you're angry though. Not your business.

Giving birth is a wonderful and beautiful event. It seems like you’re trying to sexualise it.

Charming aren't you!!!

You just knew it was going to be this type of thread where the response is this later on

So is this how you normally react with people who disagree with you?

Did you see the video? How do you know it was all Fanny and not just the bit where they put baby on the mum?

Because that’s what’s outraging you isn’t it? It’s the fanny, not the childbirth.

Personally I wouldn’t want that on video - I was in some ridiculous positions when pushing out my kids, but if said video did exist it would be for me + partner.

In this situation if you told me that DIL was fuming that was shown I’d get it. But why are you fuming 😂 your DP probably sat there squirming the whole time.

Nobody could be turned on by a birth video. Personally i wouldn't want my FIL watching a video of me giving birth but each to their own.