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Can contractions actually feel quite *gasp* nice???

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strangelyembarassed · 30/05/2008 19:58

I feel very stupid for asking this, but I am 40 weeks and for the last hour or so I have been having contractions, but they are not painful at all. If anything I feel very relaxed and a bit post-orgasmy I know contractions will feel awful when they get goign but has anyone had ones that actually felt quite nice for a while? Of course these could just be braxton hicks I suppose, but hopefully things are getting started (I am very fed up )!

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lulumama · 30/05/2008 20:00

there is a whole school of thought dedicated to orgasmic birth

who cares what anyone else thinks? if you are enjoying it , great ! a good time to get nekkid and have some hot lovin' to get things moving, or just for fun

chankins · 30/05/2008 20:03

yup I quite enjoyed mine until I got nearer the pushing point !

Pinions · 30/05/2008 20:07

Quite enjoyed mine !

wonderstuff · 30/05/2008 20:10

I flt very calm and i'm nnot normally all that chilled. Did really enjoy birth

strangelyembarassed · 30/05/2008 20:11

Glad to know I am not the only one! Am going to be very disappointed if this is not it though, I am pretty fed up and had to go to hospital with severe pain in my side yesterday, turns out I have been kicked in the ribs so hard that it has fractured So maybe this is karmas way of apologising- cracked rib, easy labour [wishful thinking emoticon]

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Pruners · 30/05/2008 20:17

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lulumama · 30/05/2008 20:44

pruners ! hello long time no see

Pruners · 30/05/2008 20:45

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FrannyandZooey · 30/05/2008 20:46

pruni woohoo!
good to see you

this thread is great btw
wish we saw more people saying the same
hope all continues enjoyably

Pruners · 30/05/2008 20:49

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FrannyandZooey · 30/05/2008 20:52

oh a break is marvellous, well done you

yes poor people who have to change their names to post about orgasmic birth eh
my heart bleeds

lulumama · 30/05/2008 20:53

I have Missed You. please don;t stay away

Pruners · 30/05/2008 20:54

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lulumama · 30/05/2008 20:56

MN needs you. and your sensibleness. and stuff !

anyhoo, back to the OP

are you still enjoying yourself?

FrannyandZooey · 30/05/2008 20:56

me? no I was going to have a wonderful time with a midwife coaching me through it all at home

ended up undiagnosed OP baby, midwife refused pain relief at home, had epidural, forceps, botched episiotomy

slight mixed feelings about next birth

DarthVader · 30/05/2008 20:57

Get some rest if you can
It is unlikely to remain pain free after a few hours...good luck!

Heated · 30/05/2008 20:57

A friend's friend said they felt like one big orgasm

MehgaLegs · 30/05/2008 20:58

I know what you mean. With DS3 especially I had two weeks of really strong BHs (not the fags, the contractions)on and off but they didn't hurt, they were just really strong muscular pulls. Not orgasmic as such but they felt good, I enjoyed them.

When I actually gave birth to him I only had about 8-10 really big contractions before he was born. They were huge ( and so was he!)and powerful and really productive.

hellsbells76 · 30/05/2008 21:02

ina may gaskin has written some really interesting stuff about orgasmic birth. wasn't quite that lucky myself but i didn't find it anywhere near as painful as i'd expected. hope it continues for you!

Pruners · 30/05/2008 21:02

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FrannyandZooey · 30/05/2008 21:03

yes if there is the slightest chance of having time to post I will
come on you knew that without me telling you, surely

lulumama · 30/05/2008 21:04

oh yes, we do a good line in Good Advice

although i am terribly fond of advising sex and nipple stim

people do look askance when i suggest it in RL.

it makes me want to say: you are pregnant, you had sex at least once! try it again ! LOL

Pruners · 31/05/2008 10:04

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