We had our DD just over ten weeks ago (our first child). DH and I have always had a good sex life and I was keen to recommence that. We had sex for the first time since the birth on Wednesday. I was slightly apprehensive but I really wanted it and thankfully there was no pain and all was fine.
However, despite being aroused and it feeling good I didn’t climax despite a lot of attention from DH and desire to on my part. I thought maybe it was heat and nerves combining but who knows? Anyway this morning DH was out and I used my vibrator, again for the first time since the birth. I eventually did have an orgasm but it took absolutely ages (almost half an hour, when normally it would take five minutes). It was a real struggle.
Has anyone else had this? Will it get easier again? Desire is there, arousal is there, but I can’t seem to get over the edge.