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Did your labours get shorter/ quicker?

14 replies

magpiemagical · 11/05/2025 09:29

My first labour was 8 hours, my second was 6. I am having an ELCS but worried that if I go into labour naturally, it’ll be faster. Dr said that if I do go into labour, I SHOULD be given an EMCS within two hours but of course it can’t be guaranteed if there are multiple emergencies. Did your labours get faster each time?

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ScrewedByFunding · 11/05/2025 09:34

Third lavours are notoriously weird!

Mine wasn't quicker than second but it was more controlled.

First was 14 hours.
Second started with a gush of waters breaking and 4 hours.
Third was 6 hours and would progress whilst I was active but if I sat and rested, the contractions tailed off. I literally took a lunch break and sat and had some food then got up and started moving again. All home births.

MmeChoufleur · 11/05/2025 09:39

My first was 36 hours, 2nd was about 6 hours (both very big babies). My 3rd was a ‘tiddly’ 7lbs and born before the midwife would even examine me because there was “no way” I could possibly be in established labour yet.

magpiemagical · 11/05/2025 09:41

@MmeChoufleurthats my fear 😩

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Dairymilkisminging · 11/05/2025 10:14

1st 7 hours
2nd 6 hours
3rd 1 hour
4th 5 hours
5th 12 hours

Dosent seem to have much rhyme or reason to it really

MmeChoufleur · 11/05/2025 12:09

magpiemagical · 11/05/2025 09:41

@MmeChoufleurthats my fear 😩

To be fair, I’d take my 3rd over the other 2 every time! I literally had to cross my legs to give the midwife time to put her gloves on, and dd was born in one push.

needacuppasoon · 11/05/2025 17:34

Yes, waaaay quicker...
1st labour started naturally at 36+2 and baby born 40 hours after waters breaking
2nd labour didn’t begin naturally (I was induced at 37+1) - nothing progressed in the 1st 24hr. I then had tightenings for 12hr and suddenly waters broke and baby was born 37 minutes later in maternity unit… I didn’t make it to labour ward, my DP didn’t make it to the birth. I laboured on my own with no pain relief. Awful and traumatic experience

magpiemagical · 11/05/2025 17:37

This isn’t reassuring (although I appreciate the responses) as I’m very worried I won’t make my CS.

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Cedrabbage · 11/05/2025 17:47

No

Hollietree · 11/05/2025 17:53

1st: 22 hours
2nd: 4 hours
3rd: 1hr 45 mins

MrsPlantagenet · 11/05/2025 17:54

My first was 6 hours, my second about half that.

KaToby · 11/05/2025 18:20

1st was 27 hours from first contraction to baby being born.

2nd was just over 5 hours.

3rd my water spontaneously broke which had never happened to me before! Then contractions started and she was born 2 hours later.

All manageable and with DD3 I didn’t even have gas and air as it made me sick.

im expecting number 4 so hoping for an hour this time 🤣

elliejjtiny · 19/05/2025 00:07

3rd was quicker than first but slower than 2nd

ToriLynn · 30/05/2025 15:13

1st - 35 minutes
2nd - 1 hour 25 minutes (back to back and 2lbs bigger 🤦‍♀️)
3rd - 10 minutes
all timed on my notes from 4cm - birth

Panicmode1 · 30/05/2025 15:17

Yes
1st - 48 hours, every single intervention (short of a CS) under the sun
2nd - 8 hours
3rd - 6 hours
4 th - slightly niggly during the day, one almighty contraction at 6pm, at the hospital by 6.15, baby born at 6.23...MW didn't even have time to leave the room for a delivery pack, DS4 was almost born in the corridor whilst waiting for entry to the delivery suite!!

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