Large baby - birth choice

[Leaf86]

I am currently 38+5 and I have an elective c-section booked for 39+4 next week. To cut a long story short, baby is measuring big with head on 97th centile (estimated already 9lb from growth scan two days ago) and I have a slightly higher chance of a PPH due to a bleeding condition. There is also a small small chance that the baby would be affected and could also be at increased risk. I’m a FTM.

I am really scared of a section, but also pretty scared of a vaginal birth (both for myself and the baby). I’m basically wondering whether to try for a vaginal birth if I go into spontaneous labour in the next week (pre section) or insist on the section. The consultant seems happy to let me choose but I would be on a “low threshold for c-section” care plan if I do try for vaginal.

I have emetophobia and am scared of vomiting in the c-section as I have heard it is common. I’m also worried about recovery, but most people I speak to think I should just go down the section route for the fact that it takes away the uncertainty of a traumatic vaginal delivery for me and bub. Any positive stories or advice really welcome!!!
thank you.

Thanks everyone for all the input, it was super helpful. As an update, baby boy arrived at 8lb4oz on my planned 39+4 c section date. He was very long but not extra big (or as big as scan suggested he would be by now). I had an episode of reduced movement the day before and decided not to risk waiting. It turned out he was horribly tangled in his cord and difficult to extract during the section. I had also started to develop pregnancy induced hypotension which has been super challenging to stay on top of post birth. All in all, I’m really glad I went for the section. It was a really calm and enjoyable birth and I am very comfortable (day 4) with no major pain.

@Leaf86 Congratulations!! So pleased it went well and that you and baby boy are doing well. 🩵 Take care of yourself and enjoy every moment ✨️