Maybe you're like me and have naturally long labour's. It's a real pain in the neck for me. I have 4 children and am expecting my 5th, currently 12 weeks pregnant.
With my first child I had to be induced at 41 weeks as he just didn't want to come. I was having a lot of braxton hicks, which I am now beginning to think is slow labour! I had to be induced with numerous pessaries until finally it all started. 48 hours. Wasn't fun.
My second child, my daughter was born at 37+3. Contractions started an hour after doing the business with my husband. But didn't go into labour straight away and was kept in hospital until they induced me with the horrible drip. She was also 48 hour labour.
Third child, I had gone into labour in the night, waters broke on the bed. I was 38+5
. Went to hospital, nothing happening and was sent home. Spent the day at home labouring with husband doing puzzles, cleaning as well and watching TV. Told we could not have sex to speed things up as its dangerous to do when your waters break.
Had him the next day. A total of 36 hours. That was my best one. Was. Able to do some at home and then had a water birth. Highly recommend!
And then my 4th one born 2018, she came late at 40+4. Started having contractions in the night, wasn't that much dilated when we got to the hospital around 7am. So went home. Things started to speed up. Then slowed down. Then went to collect the kids as just thought it wasn't going to happen. When we got to collect the kids 7pm, contractions started coming on more Quickly so we decided to keep them at the relatives and head off to the hospital . She was born the next day though at 10am. Total of 32 hours labour.
Really hoping that baby number 5 will be quicker. Long labour's aren't great but I'm surprisingly so fast at deliveries. Out within a few minutes. My last baby was 4 pushes. My husband couldn't believe it.
I also was in slow labour's also with my last two children for about 2 weeks prior which is a real pain too. Cos you're constantly like, is it, or isn't it.
Wish you all the best and hope you have a healthy baby and not too long a labour. Keep us updated please if you can! Sending all my love.