Don't know if anyone else here remembers, but I've had a lot of problems with bullying OB, bad scarring, horrible GYN, then nice GYN who was very sorry, but didn't have much to offer. Anyway....... giving up breastfeeding has really helped the healing, and completely unplanned and out of the blue, DH and I had sex last night. We were both in the mood and went for it without really thinking. It wasn't quite like normal, but it was still very nice, and DH looks like the cat that got the cream and has been exceptionally nice to me today.