Hello! So I'm almost term with our first have been told after several pv bleeds and a cervical measurement of <1cm long (is this effacement?) due to previous gyne surgery that I'm unlikely to make it much longer. However long that is, I suppose, is anyone's guess. The last week I've been up at all hours with very strong back ache and lower abdo pain that's constant like period pain. When I feel it might be ramping up... it stops. I've had a bloody show for the last 3/4 days is got small clots and looks like pink snot. I was beginning to loose the will a little bit as I'm so fed up as I'm now off work and I'm very bored so I've taken to walking the dog etc and keeping busy. However now I'm even more fed up. Yesterday I struggled to walk on my right side with what feels like sudden trapped nerve pain, my right bum cheek feels like I've been stabbed and then goes numb. It's like a kind of cramp. Yesterday I managed to cling to DH to steady me as we were in Asda. Today it's not been so bad until DH went to walk ddog and it was so bad it caused me to fall. Has anyone had anything similar? Can offer any advice? Share any wisdom of what might be going on? Or even in general just cheer me up, because even the pounding little feet in my ribs aren't raising a smile this evening. I'm fed up, tired, clueless and moping around now. I've lost what I think is