I wrote a list of what I actually used to help me pack next time:
handbag-type stuff
/Purse
/Phone
/Charger & power pack
/Maternity notes
clothes
/Nighties (big)
/Socks
/Slippers
/Nursing bras
/Maternity leggings
/Coming home clothes
Toilet bag (packed separately in bag so easy to grab and shuffle to loo with)
/Lactulose
/Germoloids
/maternity Pads (2 packs)
/washlets
/big Knickers
other toiletries
/Nipple cream
/Wash bag
/Dark towel
/Eye mask
/Ear plugs
/Hair band
/Flannel
baby
/Baby bag (Nappies, cotton wool pads, wipes, clothes, blanket)
food
/sucky top water bottle
I also really needed my Lucozade sport (flat with sucky top) and found Soreens the best snack for me. I wouldn’t have wanted DH to be nipping off to get snacks.
Get your OH to unpack & repack everything so they know where everything is.
The one thing I would have added is a flannel. Wet paper towels to mop my brow during labour wasn’t quite the same...
The one thing I wouldn’t do without is the lactulose. Made my post-birth poo totally uneventful.