Gosh honey that sounds awful, so sorry to hear it...I didn't have serious damage but was left with a cystocele, or minor bladder prolapse...it just means it was stretched a bit, but the Dr. didn't seem to think it warranted any attention really. That was 4 years ago and I've not really noticed much of a problem with it, though am afraid this time might exacerbate it...
Sorry not to be more help but my Dr. did say there was a simple operation that could be done if it was troublesome. I hope you manage to get something done, sounds really uncomfortable for you
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