Hi all,
I gave birth to dd4 mid December. Dhes i weeks old now. It was pretty traumatic birth. I was induced 2 weeks early due to leaking waters. There was meconium present. The labour was very slow to progress only getting to 3cm after 11 very painful hours.
At 3cm the pressure to push was immense and the mw was shocked that i was only 3cm amd the head still high (floating as she put it) - as were dh and i because it was my 4th labour and so much more painful than the others with nothing happening. The mw advised that i pushed anyway amd she would manually pull the cervix open to prise head out. I did this and gave birth. It was very tough (never again!)
Anyway, 8 weeks on amd im still bleeding. Its at the brown when i wipe now but over the last weeks its gone from locia, bright red, pink brown, red, pink mucusy, brown mucusy, pink (you get the picture!) - about a month ago there were "bits" in the loo - fleshy looking tissue but none since. And theres been a smell. I thought it was the smell of the sanpro but the smell has eased up so i didnt think infection. Theres still a slight smell there.
At my 6 week check up i mentioned the bleeding to the doc and she suggested a vaginal exam which i still need to do. But after the appointment the bleeding eased so i never made another.
When i went to the loo there and wiped i noticed smell hard black/dark brown rock type things...sorry that description is crap but they actually looked like kidney stones but from the vagina. Now im worried again and thinking there may be cervical damage from the traumatic labour. I know i must go back to the doctor but all of this, especially tonight, just seems so unusal.
I dont know what im looking for in this post really..reassurance...peoples experience. Ill go back to the doc this week for sure. Dreading it already :(