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Painful Contractions no dilation. What should i do?

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bluerose24 · 10/06/2017 07:05

I have had very painfull con5ractions in myback and my pelvis. Any position i mkve in doesnt work and makes kt worse when i move when i have them. They last over 40 seconds or a minute and are irregular. I had the sweep done 2 days ago and was told i wasnt dialated then and got told if they are close together to come bacm. I get them every q0 minjyes or less but i would like to know should i go back in. Im jver 40 weeks and am getting another sweep on monday but dont knowif i cant wait thatblong to see someone. I cant sleep for the last three nights Nd tonight was the worse. Waking up almost each time i had a contraction i wS even feeling them in my sleep and dreaming of them. Why dont i have them in my stomach. My stomach hardens when i get them but with no pain. Only sever pain which i cant talk through in my back, pelvis bum or vagina. Im so confused as with my first this didnt happen.

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BigGreenOlives · 10/06/2017 07:14

Could the baby be back to back? Not being dilated 2 days ago doesn't matter, this is now & things may easily have changed. Why don't you go in for a check up?

bluerose24 · 10/06/2017 07:30

Yeah i might do. Im just worried they will think ive come in for nothing if not. Or what will happen if om not. Hopefully not back to back.

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NapQueen · 10/06/2017 07:37

Definetly get checked over again, lots can change in 2 days.

SandysMam · 10/06/2017 07:40

Go, who cares what they think, just trust your instinct. You must be exhausted, they may be able to give you some pethadine to help you rest for a bit which in my case allowed me to relax enough to dilate!
Good luck OP, you can do this!!

bluerose24 · 10/06/2017 08:13

Thankyou.

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bluerose24 · 10/06/2017 08:22

Something must be happening as everytime i go for ehem. Number 2 alot of dishcharge show and very thick comes out and has been each time last couple of day more so today. Very thick sorry for images. If i can will keep updated incase anyone else is going through the same.

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NapQueen · 10/06/2017 08:24

Just go to the maternity ward.

Rockspin · 10/06/2017 08:30

I'd either go straight in or give them a call first and tell them what's going on, I bet they'd get you straight in anyway. Lots can happen in a very short space of time, 3 weeks ago I had my DD and I had painful contractions every 3 minutes but no dilation at all, then I was checked and I was 3 cm and 10 minutes later I was pushing and 20 mins after that baby was born. So it can happen fast! Good luck!

silkpyjamasallday · 10/06/2017 09:17

Go to the maternity ward, even if it is a false alarm better to know than end up having your baby on the bathroom floor! I'd been having contractions since the early hours and when I called at 7pm to say they were getting stronger and very close together the lady on the phone told me if I could speak I wasn't ready and not to come in. I went in anyway as I felt I knew my own body, after waiting to be seen for about an hour, low and behold I was 7-8cm dilated and had baby just under 3 hours later.

bluerose24 · 10/06/2017 12:39

Wow silkpyjamasallday thats crazy. Good job you was in hospital. I have been in and been told in 2cm dialated and had another sweap. Been told my cervix is still high though so he hasnt dropped fully yet but i can feel him dropping during pains or inbetween and get alot of popping. Wont be long hopefully and have a ceeling hes trying to break my waters! Also been in pain alot more as he is back to back. Ouch

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bluerose24 · 10/06/2017 12:41

That is quick. When i got checked today found i was 2 cm and got nore pains noe. Just been tokd to wait till every 5 minutes. Its helping toblay on my side a bit as i been told to as he is bacj to back as it could help

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bluerose24 · 25/07/2017 21:44

UPDATE. I DELIVERD FAST I GOT TOLD TO GO HOME EARLY HOURS OF THE MORNING THEN I WENT BACK A FEW HOURS LATER NOT LONG AFYER THAT HE ARTIVED :) I WAS FURTHER THEN THEY THOUGHT. :P

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bluerose24 · 25/07/2017 21:44

6 weeks ago

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westeringhome · 27/07/2017 12:48

Congratulations OP. Sounds like things happened fast in the end. Hope you are both doing well and you are enjoying newborn snuggles with your little boy Smile

bluerose24 · 27/07/2017 22:23

Yeah it definatly is. We are hes our spechial little boy :)

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