I'm 12 weeks pregnant with DC2. DD was born by planned c-section due to breech presentation. I know it's early but I'm really torn about whether I should consider VBAC or just go with ELCS. In theory as my first baby was breech I am a good VBAC candidate. However I have a narrow pelvis and fibroids. My mother also has both and her second birth was an EMCS after failed VBAC.
As I never went into labor with DD I feel I'd really need to commit to preparing for labor with childbirth classes and possibly a doula because the odds aren't in my favor for a successful one naturally. Which means I need to start thinking about it soonish.
I have the niggling feeling that I'm taking the "easy way out" if I just go for ELCS. At the same time with a toddler at home I feel my recovery from VBAC would be faster and make my life a lot easier.
Anyone who's made this decision? Love to hear your experiences. Thanks.
(Note: I'm not in the UK so NHS protocol etc not relevant for me)