Background:
DC1 - spontaneous labour at 41 weeks, as soon as I got to hospital they were concerned about baby's heart rate, so I had to lie completely still on my back otherwise the heart rate monitor came off. Had an epidural as lying flat v uncomfortable (also so they could easily do section if necessary). Although when the anaesthetist came to do the epidural it turned out they hadn't shown me how to use the gas and air properly... All progressed ok under epidural for some hours, ended up fully dilated, but then baby's heart rate dropped so alarm bells, brief failed attempt at forceps and EMCS (Category 1).
I have no underlying health problems, was well during the pregnancy and recovered well from CS so as far as I know no medical reason why I shouldn't try VBAC. Midwife is supportive of either choice. I can't go to a different hospital this time as I'm in a rural area (though am sorely tempted to go and stay with a relative for the few weeks in question...).
I'm only in first trimester so plenty of time to think about it (and in some ways am sort of hoping it might be breech or something so I have to have a section anyway and don't have to decide).
My thoughts were:
- I worry about failed VBAC and EMCS anyway, which is the worst of both worlds.
- Planned CS would mean I can organise relatives to help (family lives a long way away). VBAC means I don't know when it will happen so family help will be harder to plan.
- Planned CS will be at 39 weeks - I suspect due date will be on August/September boundary so although this is obviously less important than health considerations from a school year point of view a September birthday is better.
-Successful VBAC would mean I could go home asap after birth - last time I really really struggled with staying on the postnatal ward - breastfeeding support was useless and it was really noisy all day and night so I got no sleep at all. Also baby was born at midnight so husband was sent away as soon as I got back to ward and I was on my own until 11am the next day.
-I worry about recovery from a second CS in general and especially with a toddler.
I know you can't decide for me, but any other factors that you think I should consider?