I had DD at 3:30 this morning. Afterpains are awful - especially when feeding. Worse than labour. I had them with DS but nothing like this. Any tips on how to relieve them?
Also, I find that after feeding I stand up and am flooding with blood. And very often big clots. I didn't bleed this much with DS and am wondering if it's all normal. Bleeding in between times is fairly scant though. Just terrified I stand up and a clot slides down my leg when we're out or something.