Hi
I am nearly 30 weeks pregnant and have been advised in the past and by my NHS consultant to have a caesarean at 38 weeks. I have a high shirodkar stitch which needs to stay in, so something that may cause extra fiddling! I am now slightly concerned about having my caesarian in Lewisham University hospital from some of the things I have read online, especially the postnatal care. I haven't even seen the same midwife twice, is this normal? Can any of you share birth stories, positive or negative?
My alternative is to go private at the Portland (where I had my stitch inserted), which costs a huge amount but inconsequential in the scheme of things.
We would normally think about taking a risk (if there is one!) but I am 40, was previously told very small chance of getting pregnant and we lost a baby at 20 weeks last year due to CI.
Please no judging on thinking about going private, losing a baby is a terrible thing and we just want to avoid any risks.
Thanks for reading!