I got to 40+ 17 with my first
I tried sweeps, sex, pineapple, raspberry leaf tea , walking . Nothing worked. I had to be induced and it wasn't fun.
The next time I got to 40+19. I told them that just leaving me wouldn t work but they ignored me as what do I know , I'm only a woman.
It was worse that time as the head was engaged for 5 weeks . I warned them that the baby was even bigger this time . I was exhausted and fed up as I wasnt young and I had an 18 month old who I was still BF.
Eventually they agreed to induce me amd I went into hospital . The consultant on duty that day told me that I should never have been left so long ( in a tone that implied it was my fault ), that the baby was even bigger this time ( no shit Sherlock ) and they might as well take me straight to theatre for a CS because I would end up there anyway .
Did I mention that I'd already had the baby turned to avoid a CS?
I have no idea why my body doesn't appear to know how to start labour on its own :-(