When DS was born 3 Yeats ago I has a 3b tear which took months to heal and has always remained a bit sore when 'irritated', before my period, when cold etc.
When I found out I was expecting DC2, I was referred to a birth choices clinic to decide whether to go for a natural birth or c. Section. I was reassured the risk of repeated tearing was relatively small. I specifically asked about to he risk of tearing if I ended up being induced, knowing that this was more likely to lead to an instrumental birth etc. I was told it wasn't really worth discussing because, as I have spontaneously laboured with DS it was almost certain that I would do so again. Well, I am now well past my EDD and the point at which DS was born and this baby is showing no signs of shifting. I am now booked for an induction and all the midwife could say if that yes, there is an increased risk that I will tear, with or without an episiotomy.
I have been terrified of a vaginal birth all along, and only agreed to try as I was reassured I was very unlikely up find myself in this position. I am now even more terrified and thinking of refusing the induction at this stage.
So, my question is, has anyone else had an induction to prevent prolonged pregnancy, following an earlier tear, and if so, what was their experience of the induced labour?
TIA