Hello all,
I had a ventouse delivery nearly three years ago with dc 1.. I was induced as two weeks late, cue 36 hours of 'not being in labour' and then epidural, suction etc later my little girl arrived. I had an episiotomy.. Don't know what grade, but I had really awful after issues. I didn't sit for a month, and had lots of issues. Then, six months after, it was all such a mess (two infections, attempting sex was horrendous and distressing), my parents helped me pay and see a specialist, who said 'you are a mess' (in a kind way) and said he would sort it out. In that operation, he ended up having to open up the original and redo the whole thing, as well as create an opening on the opposite side as the scar tissue was so bad I wouldn't have been able to have sex. It was the best thing I have ever done, and that surgeon is amazing. I'm now pregnant with dc 2, and my midwife said I should talk to a consultant about a c section.. I was pretty scared about opening either of the wounds again.. But what are the risks of that happening again? And what are the risks of c section? I'm not sure I could face six months of agony again, but I wondered if anyone had been through this? Thanks.