Hi, I'm due to have dc2 in a few weeks by elcs. On the day of elcs I'll have dp with me and dsis will look after dc1, then later in the day dsis will visit baby and I in hospital.
I'm keen to establish breastfeeding and not suffer too much intrusion on day 1, so no other visitors then. However, both sets of grandparents will be keen to meet new gc, none live locally. What's best advice here? I was thinking of having my parents visit on day after birth, maybe for an hour or so whilst I'm still in hospital (I can ask them to leave if need to bf) then maybe pil could visit for an hour the following day?
I don't really want too much intrusion as will look ropey and definitely don't want any grandparents witnessing me trying to establish bf...but at same time I know they'd all like to visit.
Perhaps I'm better off delaying them all a few days like last time? With my emcs it was much easier to delay, as no advanced notice and so no expectations!