I've just come back from my first consultant appointment. I was referred due to a bmi of over 35 at booking in.
Essentially what came out of it and in the consultant's words ..they would prefer me to have an epidural over anything else. I was sneered at for bringing up my wish to have a water birth and the conversation was always brought back around to an epidural. There was no balance. no information about the pros or cons of an epidural and if I'm honest I hadn't considered an epidural before now as I wanted to try hypnobirthing with gas and air first as well as using water. I feel like I've been put in a corner with not much of a way out.
anyone else with a high BMI had a birth that didn't involve epidural?