Hello,
Hoping there's some mums out there that have been here before and can offer their experiences to one confused petrified mama...
I developed a chronic anal fissure shortly after my the birth of my DD (long second stage, back to back, ventouse) - which got much worse postpartum as I thought it was just piles. Took about a year to clear it completely after much consuming of Laxido and Apricots (used to like then, don't now..).
I'm pregnant with my second now and my midwife has referred me to a consultant to discuss the option of a c section. She said to consider long term health implications e.g. at 60 + the bowel is a bit more feeble anyway.
I'm staying on top of my diet during pregnancy but am already getting the odd fissure twinge and I have a very slow digestive system anyway. And am a bit petrified of pushing tbh as I don't even strain on the loo - even minutely - out of fear of tearing.
However, I've also heard about lots of mums developing anal fissures after a c-seciton due to the strong painkillers and lack of movement.
So, basically I is confused!
Anyone out there with any experience to share?