I'm 18 weeks pregnant with my first and simply terrified of birth. I've booked hypnobirthing classes as a way of keeping me as calm as I can be and I'm also thinking of getting a doula to act as a reassuring presence during the birth. I'm struggling to find a doula that serves my area, there's one but what she says on her website doesn't really make me think we'd be on the same wavelength.
I'd love to know your experience of having a doula, particularly if you were terrified of birth.
And, if anyone can recommend a Dorset doula I'd really appreciate that. 