I have a VBAC appointment with a MW at the hospital tomorrow but not sure what to expect.
I'm pregnant with DC2 and had an EMCS first time round. I think I had the CS because after getting to 10cm it emerged that DS's head was at a funny angle and probably wouldn't come out. Will the MW I see have details of what happened last time so I can get a bit of clarity on what went on?
The reason it's not clear is because I was also unwell (picked up an infection from the epidural (I think) and wasn't passing an urine. I assume that was something to due with the infection, but I know the MW's at the time were pretty concerned about the fact I wasn't passing urine so I don't know if it was that. Again, I have a vague feeling I wasn't passing urine because I'd been on the induction drip for quite a while, they were saying something about not wanting to give me any more of that.
As you can tell it's really unclear to me what happened. In some respects maybe it doesn't matter as all labours are different but I feel a bit emotional about how it went first time round (DS is 2.9) and it might be wise to sort that out before trying to do it again.
On a practical level, what sort of q's should I ask? I understand that this time round I have to be monitored and that I can request to be monitored intermittently instead of continuously. Can they refuse that?
Part of the problem with DS's labour is that when my waters went there was meconium so I was immediately put on the monitor and found it very difficult to cope while having to just sit on the bed. Hence a classic case of more and more drugs and then CS and I'd really like to avoid that. If it's going to end in a CS I'd rather just plan that. I got off to a rocky start with DS and felt completely overwhelmed by having a new baby and I think part of that may be because of not being in a shape to look after a newborn after labour/cs?
Would appreciate any help/advice... sorry for such a long OP!