Hello
I'm 40+2 with dc2, thought Id gone into labour last night but now its all stopped again. Am really confused.
Can anyone help me understand what's going on?!
My last labour was an intense 8hrs from start to finish, at 41+8 with not much warning.
Yesterday I had infrequent waves of pain particularly in my lower back & right hip, but I knew it wasn't low enough down. Bump was tightening, baby kicking. I was very agitated & emotional then I would calm down again. Pain would stay but not as strong. Walking round or breathing helped. By 11 pm it seemed to be every 15 mins, really uncomfortable, but couldn't say it was a contraction. I had a lot of the same symptoms as start of ds's labour, including throwing up. I eventually had hot bath, paracetamol, and finally put tens on. Tens helped me to sleep for 1-2 hrs at a time but when I took it off the hip / back pain intensified.
Was expecting to have tipped into labour by now but instead am back to normal.
I'm just so surprised how different this is from ds's birth. Guess last night must have been some kind of pre-labour / BH. Has anyone else experienced this or found labour very different second time around?