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Tearing with second baby.

6 replies

floatyflo · 20/10/2013 09:53

I had a 2nd degree tear with dc1.

Am I less likely to tear with dc2?

Or is that wishful thinking it works that way? Grin

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MrsBungle · 20/10/2013 10:01

I've no idea if you are more or less likely but I had a third degree tear and a big internal graze ( forceps) with dc1 and had a tiny little tear with dc2 that I really didn't even notice! Good luck!

Pancakeflipper · 20/10/2013 10:04

I didn't tear with my second.

I was dreading that as I did with my first and the stitches were more painful than giving birth to me.

With DS2 there was a little year but they decided it would be ok without stitches and it was.

Hope you don't either.

doingitagain14 · 20/10/2013 10:38

Been worrying about this too, also had second degree tear with first baby and hoping to avoid similar this time, so the responses give me hope!

floatyflo · 20/10/2013 10:56

They give me hope too! I didn't feel the tear ay the time, but boy I knew the stitches were there afterwards!

Heres hoping!

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roofio87 · 20/10/2013 11:23

I've just had dc1 and had third degree tear. consultant told me you're more likely to tear with a second if you have with your first, but the odds get better if you leave yourself a long time to heal. but my sis had a third degree tear with dc1 and nothing with dc2 less than 2 years later. don't know what to believe really!

AnaisB · 20/10/2013 11:27

You are less likely to tear with your second than your first, but if you did tear with your first the odds of tearing are increased. (Does that make sense??)

I had a second degree tear with dd and then a small tear not requiring stitches with ds, who was 2lb heavier.

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