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Laboring loudly in Kensington Wing?

3 replies

Aefeth · 21/07/2013 22:06

Hi Everyone,

I'm hoping to have a natural birth in the Kensington Wing of C&W. I would like to avoid an epidural if possible, but I've heard that the staff is quick to push/pressure you into pain medication if you don't happen to be one of the moms who is able to labor in a perfectly quiet, zen state.
My first birth was vocal, to say the least.
Thoughts anyone?

Thank you!

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jkklpu · 21/07/2013 22:08

Who'll be with you at the birth? Make sure that person knows what you want and does lots of double-checking about whether you want pain relief if i gets to that point. S/he should then make it clear to the staff.

timeforgin · 21/07/2013 22:16

I had my first in the Ken Wing in 2011 and no. 2 due in a couple months(also Ken Wing). I didn't want or have an epidural. I was consultant led (tho my consultant was on hols, baby was 2 weeks early) so was delivered by someone else. Had no pressure at all to have an epidural - consultant and midwife were v respectful of my birth plan and if anything really encouraged me at transition when it was really painful. I wasn't super noisy generally (I dn't think!) but did full on scream when the head came out. They were full of praise afterwards which was very kind (he was a reasonable size for 38 weeks and I was pushing for 2 hours).

Another consultant I saw for a check once when mine was away said that the incidence of epidurals on the wing for first time mothers was 90% so I had wondered whether there would be pressure. It's funny, maybe just coincidence but of all the people I know giving birth privately (only one an elective section), none of them wanted a natural birth and all wanted an epi (perhaps one of motivating factors for going private, ie guaranteed epi).

Best of luck!

firesideskirt · 22/07/2013 01:26

I've had 3 there, no epidurals, made my fair share of noise particularly with number 2 who arrived 5 minutes after I did and caused a bit of a scramble! I wouldn't worry; they've seen it all.

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